How We Learned To Sail
Part of what made our sailing dream a true adventure is learning to sail. Now when I say we are learning to sail, I don’t mean we took classes or are being taught, I mean we found such a good deal on a boat that fit our needs so perfectly that we didn’t have the time to actually learn. Instead, we purchased RedSky, with never having even stepped foot on a sail boat in our lives. Almost every person we talked to after buying RedSky even asked “Have you ever sailed before” and I had to consistently reply “No, Not even on a sunfish”.
The first and probably most important thing to look at is the cost. This is probably the number one question any boater get’s and it’s with good reason. Boat ownership is costly, even well after the actual purchase. It’s no secret, we got a deal on RedSky that was and is still unbelievable, but that was the smallest cost of the ownership. There is everything from the small costs like fuel, and getting personal items for sailing. But there are also the large costs like the docking fee’s, winter storage, moving, and sails. I could (and will) write a whole blog on just the cost of ownership, but I will save that.
The next step to learning was something that came as a pleasant surprise. We learned that the boating community, like most other hobbies, has a large following and everyone is willing to help however they can. The first few days in the marina we had multiple boaters coming up and offering advice, and willing to answer any question we had. We even had one that came and helped us put on our sails, and taught us how to raise them. He also gave us the best advice we will ever get as boaters, “Every sailor has advice, some is good and some isn’t…. but listen to it all and find out what works best for you”.
The next thing we learned is more personal to us, and I say it with a caveat.We learned what we want in a sailboat that RedSky doesn’t have. Now I don’t want that to sound like I don’t like RedSky, on the contrary I love her, and think it was the BEST first boat to have. We have learned alot, and the things we want moving forward are more creature comforts. For example, our next boat will have a rolling furling for a jib, however I love that we have to go connect our Jib halyard, raise and lower the jib EVERY time we want to use it. The comforts we don’t have forces us to learn the skills we need.
One of the last things we learned was a two part lesson. First part was, sailing isn’t a hobby, it is a lifestyle. And part two was, it is the lifestyle we were born to live. Obviously having kids, and limited funds have put us in a place where we can’t just live on a boat. However, this is almost better, we have the time to really decide what we want, and how we want it. But we do know without question….. one day, we WILL live on our boat.
There are so many more lessons we have learned, and each lesson is a story all in itself. I am excited to continue to share, hopefully as much as you are excited to read.